There are many people who have the limitations in their minds who have lost that fire in their eyes who, because of the experiences of life have said, no I can't do that. A lot of people never try anything differently because they have been convinced by people in their lives that they can't do it. They're living within the context of the opinions that other people have of them. The low expectations many people doubt themselves because when they thought about doing something at some critical point in their lives somebody they respected and honored someone they trusted said you can't do that. And they accepted that. People's opinion of you is none of your business. Nor should you make it yours. Someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality. It's not what they say about you that matters it is what you say about you that threatens your destiny. You will never be defeated by what they say about you you will be defeated by what you say about you. What would your life be like if you decided not to care what people thought of you? What would your life be like if you decided to give up some of your fears? What would your life be like if you decided to become courageous? So if you're at a place in your life and you ain't happy with it you have to change some things. But you have to make a conscientious decision that you're going to change. And it's not dependent on anybody else. It don't matter what your mama think it don't matter what your coworkers think it don't matter what your siblings think it don't matter what your children think. It don't matter. They have nothing to do with it. This decision is yours and yours alone. Ridicule is the price of iconic. You are gonna divorce yourself from the crowd. You are gonna be met by the naysayers. The critics. They're gonna laugh at you. Your job is to fortify your interior core where it doesn't matter if people call you crazy. Your success in any level creates an opportunity for envy. The only way to avoid it is to stay down. If you lay dead even the animals won't bite you. The risk of being bitten is the cost of getting up. And you have to decide are you so concerned about being bitten that you're willing to spend the rest of your life laying dead or is there something pumping down inside of you that says, bite me or not I'm getting up. I'm gonna be the best me. I'm gonna do all I can do even if it risks you hating me I'm going for it. Every f*cking negative comment should trigger you into f*cking productive action. Every time somebody says something to you you should go do whatever it is that is gonna make them have to eat their words. Right then right now. Don't give in. Don't be like everybody else. Don't give up. Don't settle because things are hard. You have to live your life with the expectation that great things are coming your way. You have to expect it. Start working and developing yourself now and prepare yourself for what it is that you want because you expect to get it. Whether you think you can or think you can't you're right. You got to see it before you see it. You gotta see yourself healed. You gotta see your family whole. You gota see your future. It's you. You're gonna determine the outcome of your life. You're gonna determine whether or not your life is exciting or whether or not it's boring. You look at your life you look at what you've produced is it giving you what you want? Are you living on purpose? Are you living your dream? Are you acting on your ideas? Are you doing all you can do? Have you gotten comfortable? Are you challenging yourself? Are you experimenting? Are you learning something different? Is your life an adventure or is it boring? You got some idea some dream that you might have to go back and brush it off and look at it again. And say I've got to do this. This is my stuff. This is what I'm supposed to do. This is why I showed up. Where are you going with your life?